Ever since I can remember, I’ve always aspired to inspire. You know, that genuine feeling of touching someone’s life in a way that leaves them better, more hopeful, or even just a little more courageous. It’s been a part of me for as long as I’ve existed. But somewhere along the way, what started as inspiration began to intertwine with influence. And let me tell you, sis, that’s where things get tricky. So today, let’s break it down: what does it mean to inspire, and how does that differ from influencing? More importantly, how do we stay purposeful in a world that often blurs the two?

Inspiration vs. Influence: The Fine Line

Inspiration feels organic. It’s rooted in authenticity, living your truth so fully and openly that it encourages someone else to do the same. Inspiration doesn’t scream, “Look at me!” Instead, it whispers, “You can, too.” It’s a vibe, an energy, and a ripple effect. You’re not chasing validation friend, you’re simply sharing light.

Influence, on the other hand, often feels calculated. The influencer culture we see today with its curated aesthetics, sponsored posts, and obsession with “likes” can sometimes be more about creating an illusion than building connection. Don’t get me wrong, influencing isn’t inherently bad. In fact, it can be powerful when done with intention and care. But when influence becomes a numbers game, it’s easy to lose the purpose behind why we started sharing in the first place.

Where’s the Confusion?

Here’s the thing: inspiration can naturally lead to influence. When people are moved by your authenticity, they often want to support you or learn from you, and that’s beautiful. The issue arises when the drive to inspire gets overshadowed by the pressure to influence. Suddenly, it’s not about living purposefully but about keeping up with trends, posting for engagement, and constantly chasing the next big “moment.” Just trying to keep up with an image.

And let’s be real! We’ve all felt it. The scrolling, the comparing, the wondering if we’re doing “enough.” It’s exhausting and, frankly, not what life’s supposed to be about.

Living a Purposeful Life

So how do we stay rooted in purpose and inspiration? Here’s what I’ve learned:

1. Start With Your “Why” Why do you share? Why do you create? Why do you show up? For me, it’s always been about making a positive impact, even if it’s just on one person. Keeping that “why” front and center helps me stay grounded.
2. Focus on Connection, Not Perfection People don’t need perfect; they need real. Share your wins, but also share your struggles. Show up as you are, because that’s where the magic happens. Perfection might impress people, but authenticity connects them.
3. Take Social Media Breaks Whew friend, let’s talk about this one! Stepping away from the constant noise of social media can help you refocus on what truly matters. It’s in those quiet moments that clarity often comes.
4. Measure Success Differently Forget the likes, views, and followers. Instead, ask yourself: Did I stay true to myself? Those are the metrics that matter.

Calling Out False Narratives

Let’s not sugarcoat it—the influencer culture can be toxic. It often promotes unattainable lifestyles, glorifies consumerism, and creates a cycle of comparison. But here’s the tea: we literally don’t have to buy into it. We can choose to be a different kind of voice, one that uplifts rather than overwhelms. We can challenge the false narratives and remind people that their worth isn’t tied to aesthetics or algorithms.

Inspiration Over Influence

At the end of the day, inspiration and influence don’t have to be at odds. When you’re intentional about living purposefully, the influence you have will naturally reflect that. You don’t have to chase it friend, it’ll come to you. Stay focused on being a light, and trust that the right people will be drawn to your glow.

And, and let me just say this, being an Aries, I’ve always felt a natural pull to lead and inspire. It’s in my nature to step up, to shine, and to encourage others to do the same. That fiery energy keeps me motivated to live authentically and purposefully.

So here’s to all of us who are aspiring to inspire, living with purpose, and redefining what it means to truly make an impact. The world needs more of that energy. And if you’ve read this far, let me remind you: your light is powerful. Keep shining, babe.

Xoxo, Drea